Early cues | Further cues | Late cues |
Mouth opening | Hands in mouth | Squirming |
Tongue sticking out | Wriggling | Fussing |
Turning head towards chest | Calling | Redness |
Lip-smacking | Crying | |
Head bobbing | Back arching | |
Sucking and licking sounds | ||
Looking for nipple or teat | ||
Trying to get into feeding position | ||
Pulling at clothes |
- Their pace of sucking slows down, taking longer pauses between sucks
- Their body relaxes – they might become softer or floppier, often with their hands unclenching
- They fall asleep, letting go of the nipple or teat, and milk may trickle out of their mouth
- The push the nipple or bottle away from them, turn their head away or arch their back in annoyance
- Offer small feeds, every 2-3 hours can help.
- Instead of feeding by the clock, watch your baby for their hunger cues. If they start showing signs of hunger 2 hours after their last feed, then they should be offered milk.
- Allow baby to accept the bottle by bringing it gently to their lips and watching for signs that they are ready for milk. Sit them a little more upright, so that the bottle is more horizontal, and isn’t propped in their mouth.
- Watch them throughout the feed, for signs that they are slowing down or pausing. Gently pull the bottle away and look for signs if they want to continue feeding or are full.
- If baby shows signs of fullness before the end of the bottle, stop feeding, and avoid trying to get them to finish the bottle.
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